Yeah.
I haven't written in a while... sorry. But I probably wouldn't have written anything worthwhile, so it's cool.
What's up? Nothing really. I have exams but that's not really a big deal. I fully expect to fail English and Literature, given I haven't read any of the stories required for the literature exams (which I just took) and the English teacher hates me.
I'm leaving soon. Really soon. Less than a month soon. I go to Cairo the 11th and leave the 13th. The latest thing after that that I know is that I'll be in Frankfurt by 8 on the 13th. Isa (this is Egypt, they might be too lazy to take off...)
I'm sad and not. It's not the normal way most people are sad, you want this, you don't want to lose this, you'll miss this person but you want this other one to take a long walk of a short pier... It's that if I could I would stay here for a long time, but since I can't I just want it to be over. Egypt's kinda feeling dead right now. I realize that sounds super emo and dramatic, but what I mean is that, since I'm leaving in a month, I can't make summer plans. I can't go on trips. I can't promise my classmates I'll see them next year or get a dress for my host sister's wedding. Why bother at school if I've only a week left? These people didn't care about me when they thought I was gonna be at VAC until I graduated. Why would they care about me if they found out I wasn't coming back? (I've told them but they haven't figured out yet that when I say, "I am leaving for America in a month. For good. As in I am not coming back" I am leaving for America in a month. For good. As in I am not coming back.)
I'm gonna miss a lot of stuff. The sea, the streets, the tram, the mushrooa3s, the trips, the craziness, going out all the time and never having to take classes. Some of my classmates I'll miss, and the AFSers I will definitely miss a ton, and my host family I will also miss very much. I love how random this place is. Did you know that the World Institute for Cataracts is right here in Alex? I didn't either. I passed it yesterday. I love how one of the clothing store's has a sign that says, "Tragedy inspiration with optimism and fun". I love how Oprah, Jif, and Subway are all clothing stores. I love how if you want to get your hair done you can go to the "Tonight Butte Center".
There's a lot of stuff to hate, but that's true of any place. For one, Egyptians are difficult. Incredibly difficult. You. Have. No. Idea. And it's hard to do the right thing, culture wise. I miss having guy friends, I miss being a brunette (here people call me blond...), I miss being funny (ish... kinda...). I miss my friends and my family and running and food and green. But crazy things happen here. You find yourself on paddle boats out on sea or crammed into tiny cafes or running into these incredible people on the street...
Oh well.
Swine flu is a big deal here, by the way. Like, huge. It's pretty much what everyone's been talking about. You're not supposed to kiss people on the cheek, wash your hands every two hours, kill all the pigs... It's ridiculous, though. I've yet to hear of ANY swine flu here. And unless the pigs here have been taking siesta with some cerdos mexicanos they don't have it either. This kind of pisses me off. They want to look proactive but they just look ridiculous. They've said it's not because of swine flu, that the pigs are dirty, they eat garbage. Well, they do. The apples and banana peels you throw into the waste, the pigs are eating that. They're probably cleaner than the pigeons, cows, and camels I've seen butchered here. And if you drive between Alex and Cairo, all the trash that people throw out the windows of cars gets tilled into the farmers fields. So you can't go and slaughter all pigs because they're "unclean" .
Ridiculous doesn't even begin to describe it.
The only thing that really worries me about the swine flu here is the fact that, if it were to come to Egypt, I am convinced that every other Egyptian would be convinced that they had it. One cough and they'd rush over to the hospitals, crowd them so much that if anyone had it they couldn't get treatment. Obviously I'm exaggerating, but that on a smaller scale really freaks me out. I told you. Egyptians are difficult.
Finally, because this post seems kind of... without substance, I thought I'd write about something I'm coming to know quite well... the Egyptian wedding. I think it goes a little something like this;
The man approaches the woman, I think over lunch or something, and asks her if she would be willling to marry him. If she says yes, she speaks to her parents, and if they consent he and maybe his family come over and eat gatou and drink soda. There follows a small ceremony where they essentially say that they're engaged, and everyone wears nice but not formal clothes. Following this is the engagement, which can be a pretty big deal. For one of my host sisters, it meant dressing really nicely, having both families meet in a nice flat, eating gatou and cake and pastries and drinking soda, some people dancing, and a clean and beribboned compact car picking them up and bringing them to a nice cafe for the night. For my other sister, who is no longer engaged, it meant going through a wedding ceremony, just not getting legally married.
My host sister wears a scarf, but for the engagement she went unveiled with a strapped dress, and up-do, and little applique tattoos. We went to the 2u3a, the wedding... I dunno. The place just used for wedding and engagements. It doesn't really have a word in English. A band came and serenaded them out front for about 10 minutes, then we went inside. People danced to loud, Arabic music, there were pastries and a sugar drink called Sherba. Then things started getting crazy. My host sister's fiance was... not the best guy. And my host sister has male friends, which is normal here, from her work or her high school or her college, whom she had invited. One of them grabbed a chair, put it in the middle of the dance floor, and started belly dancing on it.
What went down would live a long and happy life on youtube.
The fiance got jealous. Very. He started yelling, trying to pull him down, making fun of him. Everyone immediately around them started freaking out, trying to calm him down and normalize things. But he just got madder. And my host sister had this horrible, sad look on her face. And the dude on the chair didn't notice and just kept dancing.
Finally he got down and saw what was going on... but it was pretty intense. I would've thought it inappropriate to write about but when we watched the wedding on video, my host family played the fight 3 times in a row, so I think it's cool.
After this people got tired and everything started to cool down. But apparently at a wedding that just doesn't work. The 2u3a wants to fix this. They send it specialists. Two black men come in, doing a sychronized dance.
I am not kidding.
Wearing red hoodies and sagging their jeans, they had this shuffley sort of step dance they'd do as they'd mouth along to the Arabic songs. IMMEDIATELY people started filling the dance floor. It was like these dudes injected energizer into the air. It was intense.
But, all good things must end, and after a while the dudes shuffled out and people stopped dancing and my host sister and her fiance drove away in the fancy car, and the rest of us went home to sleep.
My host sister broke off the engagement not long after that, but my other host sister is still engaged, and she'll be having her wedding in July. While waiting for the happy day, they've been buying stuff. Lots of stuff. From the beginning of their marriage Egyptian couples save things to give to their children when they get married. They use this stuff, and the mountains of stuff they buy, to decorate their child's new flat. In Egypt, men pay the dowry, the dowry being a flat and furniture. The women buy the sheets and the rugs and the toothbrush holders and singing sugar bowls.
Which pretty much sums up my superficial knowledge of Egyptian weddings. Whoo!
I feel bad, this seems like a pretty bitter post. I always feel like when I write this stuff down I come off like an old B movie. Oh well.
Not much is up, other than all that. I'm trying to go to Cairo soon, to go to Khan al Khalili, see a bit more of the city, and hang out with some friends. Other than that, just buying gifts and souvenirs and trying to last the last few days of school.
Anything you guys wanna know? Any particular stuff you want from Egypt?
Lots of love,
Cera
I haven't written in a while... sorry. But I probably wouldn't have written anything worthwhile, so it's cool.
What's up? Nothing really. I have exams but that's not really a big deal. I fully expect to fail English and Literature, given I haven't read any of the stories required for the literature exams (which I just took) and the English teacher hates me.
I'm leaving soon. Really soon. Less than a month soon. I go to Cairo the 11th and leave the 13th. The latest thing after that that I know is that I'll be in Frankfurt by 8 on the 13th. Isa (this is Egypt, they might be too lazy to take off...)
I'm sad and not. It's not the normal way most people are sad, you want this, you don't want to lose this, you'll miss this person but you want this other one to take a long walk of a short pier... It's that if I could I would stay here for a long time, but since I can't I just want it to be over. Egypt's kinda feeling dead right now. I realize that sounds super emo and dramatic, but what I mean is that, since I'm leaving in a month, I can't make summer plans. I can't go on trips. I can't promise my classmates I'll see them next year or get a dress for my host sister's wedding. Why bother at school if I've only a week left? These people didn't care about me when they thought I was gonna be at VAC until I graduated. Why would they care about me if they found out I wasn't coming back? (I've told them but they haven't figured out yet that when I say, "I am leaving for America in a month. For good. As in I am not coming back" I am leaving for America in a month. For good. As in I am not coming back.)
I'm gonna miss a lot of stuff. The sea, the streets, the tram, the mushrooa3s, the trips, the craziness, going out all the time and never having to take classes. Some of my classmates I'll miss, and the AFSers I will definitely miss a ton, and my host family I will also miss very much. I love how random this place is. Did you know that the World Institute for Cataracts is right here in Alex? I didn't either. I passed it yesterday. I love how one of the clothing store's has a sign that says, "Tragedy inspiration with optimism and fun". I love how Oprah, Jif, and Subway are all clothing stores. I love how if you want to get your hair done you can go to the "Tonight Butte Center".
There's a lot of stuff to hate, but that's true of any place. For one, Egyptians are difficult. Incredibly difficult. You. Have. No. Idea. And it's hard to do the right thing, culture wise. I miss having guy friends, I miss being a brunette (here people call me blond...), I miss being funny (ish... kinda...). I miss my friends and my family and running and food and green. But crazy things happen here. You find yourself on paddle boats out on sea or crammed into tiny cafes or running into these incredible people on the street...
Oh well.
Swine flu is a big deal here, by the way. Like, huge. It's pretty much what everyone's been talking about. You're not supposed to kiss people on the cheek, wash your hands every two hours, kill all the pigs... It's ridiculous, though. I've yet to hear of ANY swine flu here. And unless the pigs here have been taking siesta with some cerdos mexicanos they don't have it either. This kind of pisses me off. They want to look proactive but they just look ridiculous. They've said it's not because of swine flu, that the pigs are dirty, they eat garbage. Well, they do. The apples and banana peels you throw into the waste, the pigs are eating that. They're probably cleaner than the pigeons, cows, and camels I've seen butchered here. And if you drive between Alex and Cairo, all the trash that people throw out the windows of cars gets tilled into the farmers fields. So you can't go and slaughter all pigs because they're "unclean" .
Ridiculous doesn't even begin to describe it.
The only thing that really worries me about the swine flu here is the fact that, if it were to come to Egypt, I am convinced that every other Egyptian would be convinced that they had it. One cough and they'd rush over to the hospitals, crowd them so much that if anyone had it they couldn't get treatment. Obviously I'm exaggerating, but that on a smaller scale really freaks me out. I told you. Egyptians are difficult.
Finally, because this post seems kind of... without substance, I thought I'd write about something I'm coming to know quite well... the Egyptian wedding. I think it goes a little something like this;
The man approaches the woman, I think over lunch or something, and asks her if she would be willling to marry him. If she says yes, she speaks to her parents, and if they consent he and maybe his family come over and eat gatou and drink soda. There follows a small ceremony where they essentially say that they're engaged, and everyone wears nice but not formal clothes. Following this is the engagement, which can be a pretty big deal. For one of my host sisters, it meant dressing really nicely, having both families meet in a nice flat, eating gatou and cake and pastries and drinking soda, some people dancing, and a clean and beribboned compact car picking them up and bringing them to a nice cafe for the night. For my other sister, who is no longer engaged, it meant going through a wedding ceremony, just not getting legally married.
My host sister wears a scarf, but for the engagement she went unveiled with a strapped dress, and up-do, and little applique tattoos. We went to the 2u3a, the wedding... I dunno. The place just used for wedding and engagements. It doesn't really have a word in English. A band came and serenaded them out front for about 10 minutes, then we went inside. People danced to loud, Arabic music, there were pastries and a sugar drink called Sherba. Then things started getting crazy. My host sister's fiance was... not the best guy. And my host sister has male friends, which is normal here, from her work or her high school or her college, whom she had invited. One of them grabbed a chair, put it in the middle of the dance floor, and started belly dancing on it.
What went down would live a long and happy life on youtube.
The fiance got jealous. Very. He started yelling, trying to pull him down, making fun of him. Everyone immediately around them started freaking out, trying to calm him down and normalize things. But he just got madder. And my host sister had this horrible, sad look on her face. And the dude on the chair didn't notice and just kept dancing.
Finally he got down and saw what was going on... but it was pretty intense. I would've thought it inappropriate to write about but when we watched the wedding on video, my host family played the fight 3 times in a row, so I think it's cool.
After this people got tired and everything started to cool down. But apparently at a wedding that just doesn't work. The 2u3a wants to fix this. They send it specialists. Two black men come in, doing a sychronized dance.
I am not kidding.
Wearing red hoodies and sagging their jeans, they had this shuffley sort of step dance they'd do as they'd mouth along to the Arabic songs. IMMEDIATELY people started filling the dance floor. It was like these dudes injected energizer into the air. It was intense.
But, all good things must end, and after a while the dudes shuffled out and people stopped dancing and my host sister and her fiance drove away in the fancy car, and the rest of us went home to sleep.
My host sister broke off the engagement not long after that, but my other host sister is still engaged, and she'll be having her wedding in July. While waiting for the happy day, they've been buying stuff. Lots of stuff. From the beginning of their marriage Egyptian couples save things to give to their children when they get married. They use this stuff, and the mountains of stuff they buy, to decorate their child's new flat. In Egypt, men pay the dowry, the dowry being a flat and furniture. The women buy the sheets and the rugs and the toothbrush holders and singing sugar bowls.
Which pretty much sums up my superficial knowledge of Egyptian weddings. Whoo!
I feel bad, this seems like a pretty bitter post. I always feel like when I write this stuff down I come off like an old B movie. Oh well.
Not much is up, other than all that. I'm trying to go to Cairo soon, to go to Khan al Khalili, see a bit more of the city, and hang out with some friends. Other than that, just buying gifts and souvenirs and trying to last the last few days of school.
Anything you guys wanna know? Any particular stuff you want from Egypt?
Lots of love,
Cera
